Date:   2/18/2005 1:21:54 PM ( 19 y ago)
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Hello Needadvise,
I think that you are immature. The problem is that people rush into marriage that is very sacred, then when it does not go as they want they leave.
What true effort have you made to make your marriage a success. From what I have read it is about you and how you feel. We don't understand that when we marry, we are to put the other person (spouse) before ourselves. I am not saying that your husband doesn't have things that he needs to change for you but we should work towards pleasing the other spouse in our daily lives. We in the United States have slowly ben taught that it is about pleasing ourselves rather than others.
You have committed adultery on your husband. It is funny how we can justify anything in our minds. Because we do not have sexual intercourse, we feel that we have not done anything wrong, and we wonder way the world is in the shape it is. Where are your morals? at 25 you should have established them by now. You did not consider how your actions would affect your husband or others around you.
I suggest that you would see a Christian councilor to try to resolve first your on personal issues then work together with your husband to resolve your marital issues. Marriage takes WORK, and personal quirks should not drive you away from another person. I hope that you can take insight from others and not make the same mistakes and become just another unfortunate divorce.
 

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