Date:   12/10/2015 3:56:08 PM ( 9 y ago)
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Are you telling her because you are trying to prepare her for the day when you decide to leave her for somebody else, so she won't be shocked and surprised? Are you telling her because you feel guilty and need to confess? Are you telling her because you are hoping it will turn her on and she will want some too? Are you telling her because you want her to know that you are normal and other women enjoy it, so she will know something is wrong with her, and get it fixed for you?

Do you resent her for being honest about that fact that what the two of you are doing, isn't satisfying enough to make her want to keep doing it? Is that why you have a need to put what you are doing in her face? Are you fantasizing about her when you are having sex with the other women?

Perhaps she is hoping that the intensity of your desire, which is turning her off, will be quelled by your activity with other women, and she will have the space to want you too. If so, then your insisting on her knowing what you are up to, is turning her off even more. Perhaps it was a test and you failed. What if you had said, "I am not interested in having sex with anybody but you, and I would rather go without than do it with somebody else!"? Perhaps she would have been touched and turned on. The fact that you did it says you will dump her if you ever find somebody else, who you can trust not to cut you off.

Searching for somebody who likes what you do, instead of asking questions and finding out how to please the one you've got is what men do when if they are the slaves of their own penises. As long as a man is a slave to his penis, he will expect any woman who commits to him to be a slave to his penis too. Sexual slavery is not fun. Women are longing to have liberated sex out of spontaneous passionate desire, not a dutiful obligatory dull boring responsibility. Liberated passionate sex is the result of inspiration. Are you hoping to inspire her by telling her what you are up to?
 

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