Re: Do men feel bad when an unborn baby of their's is aborted? by waitingonanewworld ..... Abortion Debate Forum
Date: 5/10/2014 1:05:28 PM ( 10 y ago)
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I thank you and I appreciate your response. Also, thank you for sharing your experience and insight into this matter of men feeling sadness or remorse concerning the abortion of their unborn baby.
I will definitely admit that I am conversing from a biased "spiritual" viewpoint. Biased meaning one-sided. However, I am not oblivious to some of the reasons why people have abortions. Many have abortions because of being raped by someone known or unknown to them. Others, because they deem their secular careers as more important than the rearing up of a child. Many have abortions because they are not emotionally, mentally, and financially prepared to handle the responsibility of raising a child to adulthood. Then there are those who want to cover up in secrecy, their infidelity or disloyalty to their mates, spouses, or significant other.
Sometimes a mother's life or an unborn baby's life hangs in the balance and it get's to the point where a choice has to be made concerning who will live and who will die. This latter because of a physical condition or issue is a sad scenario, and one that has to be thought out very carefully. The other scenarios can be remedied by abstinence from sex and a little thinking about the "what if's" or adverse consequences that will occur when engaging in immoral sexual relations, unrestrained, and "unauthorized" sex with someone other than your mate or spouse.
You mentioned and asked why is something so pleasurable off limits. Because God has put limitations and restraints on who can engage in this form of intimate physical love. It is also for a protection for us as well. STD's are rampant on an earthwide scale. Broken marriages are at an all time high and even domestic violence and murder can occur when disloyalty is in a marriage.
The Bible say's to those who are not married to : "Flee from fornication" or from having sex before you are married. There are many benefits in doing so.
I take it you have very little knowledge about the Bible. Correct me if I'm wrong....I usually mention to people who are not familiar with the Bible, that if they knew what God's will and purpose was for mankind and the earth, it would be no problem for them to abstain from sex and any of the other negative vices that tend to demoralize a person. As a matter of fact, honest-hearted one's would be more than happy to abstain from immoral sex...
Here are a few things that cause me to be "secure" as you say in my beliefs and in my marriage:
1. I know God is real, I know His personal name which is Jehovah (Psalms 83:18), and I know He, Jehovah created all things (Revelation 4:11).
2. I have a real, genuine purpose in life; and that is to serve and worship God, as well as share "spiritual light" about God's heavenly based Kingdom/Government. I truly believe the message on the pages of the Bible can give honest-hearted, humble ones a wonderful hope for the future (Jeremiah 29:11-13).
3. My faith in the beautiful promise of a "resurrection" back to life on a paradise earth, if I or anyone of my loved ones or friends died, and knowing countless millions who have died in the present and the past will be brought back to life, surely "shores me up" and anchors my faith in God...as a result I want to show my gratitude, love and appreciation for what Jehovah God has done, and for what He will yet do in mankind's coming history. One of the many ways I show my love for God is by abstaining from immoral, illicit sex.
4. The Bible based promise of living forever on a beautiful, peaceful, secure, pristine earth minus all the evil and suffering that exist today. Everyone during that time in mankind's coming history will be genuine loving neighbors, family and friends (Isaiah chapter 11).
No more wars, no more crime, no more sickness, disease, disorders, old age and death. These ills of mankind will never exist again under God's Kingdom, because the whole earth will be filled with the "knowledge of Jehovah" (Psalms 46:8,9; Psalms 37:10,11; Isaiah 33:24).
These are some of the reasons I speak and feel this way concerning the precious life of an unborn baby. I know if a person takes on the challenge of raising an infant despite the hardships, challenges and obstacles that will come, I know the Bible has practical assistance and good advice when it comes to making it through hard times and especially when it comes to taking care of and raising a child.
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