Date:   3/6/2013 5:34:47 AM ( 12 y ago)
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This may come off as harsh, but you have no business involving yourself with some man that you've only known for 3 months when you have a CHILD TO RAISE.  You would do yourself and your innocent child a service if you made the choice to secure your education and put forth your energies on raising a well-adjusted and healthy child.

It sounds as if you're attempting to "save" this loser by bailing him out and doing everything for him under the most mistaken belief that, if you "save" this man, he will not abandon you and "love" you.  Well, the truth is that nothing good is going to come from this relationshit - not one thing, unless you want to produce another innocent soul who has no choice as to whom he/she will be born to.  Do you honestly believe that it's appropriate to be raising your child in association with someone who requires to be bailed out of jail and will likely end up in prison?  Do you honestly believe that you don't deserve something better?  That your child deserves nothing better than this situation?

I would strongly encourage you to consider counseling therapy to help you learn about your own value in this vast Universe and how to build boundaries so that you don't end up making a lifetime of mistakes based upon flawed beliefs.  Get a degree, formulate a career, become independent of ANY man, and put forth your energies on you and your child. 

Sometimes, the truth is not warm and fuzzy.  But, the truth is that this guy is poison and is going to ruin not only your life, but your child's life.  Your child doesn't have choices or a legal voice and you are obligated to put your child's needs and well-being before your own - excluding educating yourself and developing your own independence.

Good luck to you

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