Date:   12/13/2012 6:36:08 AM ( 12 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=2015759

Mama, I'm SO glad that you sorted this out for yourself - too many people are unaware that there are human predators out there that are not imprisoned.  Most people associate sociopathy with criminals like Charles Manson and Hitler, and this is a misconception.  ANYONE can be high in sociopathic traits.  Mothers, fathers, siblings, religious/spiritual leaders, lawmakers, social workers, best friends, coworkers....anyone.

That he is getting older puts a solid crimp in his modus operandii - he's no longer charming, he's no longer uber-wealthy, and he's brain damaged.  So, he's going to use whatever he can to secure whatever targets that might be available.  They never "get better," Mama.  They only alter their tactics.

That his family suddenly began to communicate was the first flapping, screaming "Red Flag" that something was up.  His family members are "minions" and enablers, and he likely contacted them to let everyone know about his sad, sad situation. 

The beautiful qualities of nurturing, caring, compassion, encouragement, understanding, and acceptance are, without fail, used and twisted by spaths into vulnerabilities to be exploited.  Period.  And, this is a sad, sad fact, Mama.  What I so aspired to was used as tools of manipulation, rather than being appreciated for the qualities that they clearly are.  Your chosen profession and calling predisposes a person to care and concern, and his brain trauma is a bona fide "excuse" to generate pity.  Seriously.  Some spaths will actually self-inflict injury to generate pity and sympathy for the sole purpose of manipulation.  My own son broke his own wrists to be DE CLAREd "unfit" for military duty and to also assist in receiving disability benefits. 

"Dodged a bullet," indeed you did, Mama.  And, GOOD FOR YOU!!!!  Keep checking the LoveFraud website and learn how you can help educate others that might be vulnerable, as well.  These people exist in every walk of life, and in every situation where human beings are gathered together.  They are simply part of the Human Condition - they have always existed, and they always will.  But, long ago when mankind lived in smaller social and cultural units, there were methods of managing "bad people" through tribal practices that are, today, viewed as barbaric and cruel.  Sometimes, I wonder if those views aren't flawed to the Nth degree when I read and hear daily news reports of one more person who deliberately and maliciously inflicts damage upon other human beings.

Brightest blessings to you, Mama

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