Date:   3/2/2006 3:51:12 PM ( 18 y ago)
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Human relationships are like a game of tennis. If someone hits you nice overhanded volley balls and shots, and you swing overhanded returns the light volley tennis game can go on for a long time. If someone hits underhanded or tricky hard wrist shots or the ball hits you, the net or the cement. You may decide not to play with that person, so you let thier served balls hit the cement and lay there and you walk away and go do something else or go play with another who serves balls to your liking for a more fun or a lighter or more interesting game of tennis.
We all have free will to decide who we will play tennis with, if someone keeps hitting you fast underhanded hard tricky wrist balls in tennis you may get bored and decide not to play the game with that person, so you walk of the court and do not return a tennis serve unless you like the style of the server and want to play with them.
There are 6.5 billion people on earth and everyone who plays tennis will play the way they like to play. It is best to play tennis with people whose serve you like and who like your serve. That makes for a fun game.
relationships as a tennis game, from jasmuheen.com



 

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