Date:   6/4/2012 2:39:09 PM ( 13 y ago)
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This Awareness suggests that unrequited love is a very difficult subject to understand. It leaves some extremely deep emotional scars and feelings, and is likened unto a disease of the heart and emotions. It can force an entity to do things they would not normally do, and cause them to become bitter and hostile, or give them enough pain that they can learn not to inflict similar pain on others.

There is great opportunity for learning and for soul growth during times of unrequited love, but there is also great temptation to get revenge, to become embittered and to hurt innocent people because you yourself, as an innocent person, were hurt by someone whom you loved. This kind of situation appears to affect almost everyone at some stage, usually in their youth, and sometimes, repeatedly throughout their life. It occurs during times of divorce. Seeing this from an overview, entities will have a better understanding of how to deal with these frustrations associated with unrequited love, for if entities can truly love each other, caring about each other but not depending emotionally for their own welfare on the 'acceptance' of another, then the entity can have a more healthy relationship.

If your psychological welfare depends on someone else accepting you, you are setting yourself up to become a victim of unrequited love. Hold back enough of yourself to be able to take care of yourself in the event the other person in your life should betray you...You must always know that you have the strength to take care of yourself, ...even if rejected. It is much like the song "I know you won't let me down, for I'm already standing on the ground." With this attitude, you can take care of yourself and give yourself more freely to the other person, but if you give yourself without the feeling you have stability within, and are able to attend your own emotional, physical and psychological needs, then you are essentially putting your life in the hands of another and entrusting yourself to the other and setting yourself up to be hurt very badly.

 

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