Date:   12/28/2005 10:02:46 PM ( 20 y ago)
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14 years ago I was doing what I thought was right... taking my daughter to get vaccinations. She screamed as we left the doctor's office and she started hitting her head on the ground. She didn't stop screaming for a year. We took her back to that doctor and he said it had nothing to do with the shots. She developed very slowly after that. She didn't speak in words for a few more years and even then it was very awkward. She is frightened by loud noises, has difficulty maintaining even the most basic friendships, and she is a magnificant artist.

My daughter was labled Autistic and perhaps she is. If I had known what I know now and vaccinated my latest child, who is a toddler, I think it might be akin to child abuse. But there are worse things than vaccinating your child. What if you divorce and your wife's new boyfriend abuses your child or what if you just drift out of your child's life?

In addition to not vaccinating, after extensive conversations, the mother of my toddler agreed to not feed her cow's milk. It was tough convincing her that milk was bad for our baby. Nomilk.com helped convince my wife that milk was bad for her.

There have been several things that have happened to change my wife's mind about raising our child. I believe when her friend's child died of SIDS, shortly after getting vaccinated at 6 months old and my older daughter's Autism, which was related to vaccinations, may have convinced her about the vaccinations. My happy baby girl is going to be two in May and up to now she(unvaccinated) has only had a runny nose for two or three days in her whole life. She is the healthiest and happiest human being I have ever known. If it had come to breaking up my marriage though, preventing me from being around my child, and thereby denying her a father, I might have given in.

My Autistic child is very challenged but she has a lot to give the world. Her mother and I argue over the medication issue when she visits me now but I am glad when she visits and I know if I get tough about it, I will not get visitation rights. Divorce will not make things any better and you will not win that fight either.

If your child is not type A blood type and you do not have Autism or other brain problems in your family then the risks might not be as great as you might believe. The dcisions you make right now should be carefully thought out.

I feel your pain but your marriage might have more wrong with it than just the vaccination issue?

Finding meaningful work could give you a better position with your wife when making decisions about your child. Find a yellow pages and circle every place of employment that looks like a winner and call them to set up an interview. Don't stop looking for what you want to do for a living until you find the exact job you want, or go back to school, or become what you wanted to be when you were still a dreamer. I hope that you can stay in your child's life. Children need their fathers. If you ae going to lose this fight anyway, choose what is best for your child by giving your child you, and find a way to be there for them. The decisions you make now may determine how often you will see your child or even if you will see your child. Take a long look at your options.

My children mean more to me than anything on this earth and if I had not convinced my current wife that vaccines were poison then I might be divorced today but I wouldn't have ever let it get to the point of police visiting my home about it. If you are going to divorce anyway, go and find a preoccupation that will give meaning to your life and make yourself into a daddy that your child would want to visit.




 

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