Date:   2/27/2011 7:15:35 AM ( 14 y ago)
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" Uny does not like me because...."

"Tony also does not like me because ...."

So what. Is it your goal to have everybody like you ? If so, I think you're going about it all wrong. However, you will never get to where everybody likes you -there will always be a somebody who doesn't like you. As for me, I could care less if tony or uny like me. I don't care if they choose to hate me either, just so long as they don't get in my when when I'm crossing the street. Why would any sane person give a ratzass whether anonymous folk on the internet they're probably never going to meet, "like" them or not ?

I dont know you, and I don't read your fourm or the spudy forums. Its not because I don't like you or spuds, rather, its that I don't care for folks who habitually moan and groan to the management over issues that the individual(s) can solve themselves. You had the power all along , just like Dorothy and her red slippers.

Tacitly, moaning to management is an admission that one's not capable of handling themselves and need help in proceeding. I couldn't view those who can't handle themselves as being leaders.

I had a lot of arguments with people over the years on here and can't recall ever addressing the Webmaster a single time. Being a true American, I tend to resolve my own matters, as opposed to those who've been bred to be dependent on others. Its a guy thing I suppose, and we all have it, to more or less extent. Being different is what being ourselves is all about.

And the news people say that being different is what makes us strong. So I'd say to celebrate the diversity, particularly that of the people who don't like you. View them as the gifts they are, be respectful and thankful to the Creator for providing them for you.

They can teach you many valuable lessons, which is probably why you find yourself in the midst of all this. Its a great opportunity for you (AND EVERYBODY ELSE) to learn.





 

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