Need Help to understand and communicate with boyfriend who is very hard to approach! by bibti77 ..... Relationship Support Forum
Date: 9/19/2010 3:51:50 PM ( 14 y ago)
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Hello, I've been seeing someone now for almost 6 months. Unfortunately, we rushed into living together due to my situation. I was still at home with my parents and didn't even have a vehicle because of a bad turn of events. I met this man while I was bartending and we just hit it off. I wasn't ready or looking for a relationship but we clicked really well. Since meeting, we have had an issue that has been very strenuous on our relationship.... BV. I have been doing all that I can to figure out how to treat it and get rid of it permanently.... even on the BV forum on this site. Other than that issue I have recently found out things about his addictions to some meds that I was unaware of from the beginning. He has also shown more and more of a depressed state of mind and being and I don't know what to do. If I try to talk to him about anything, he usually gets angry. Me being in the situation I'm in and living in his house, driving his car to get to work, don't feel like I can really push too many issues. He has made me feel horrible about my body due to my current issue and instead of being understanding that I am doing all I can... chooses to make me feel like it's my fault and doesn't want to even kiss me. His attitude on everything is... "If you don't like it... leave"
He says he's in love with me and really has done a lot to show that but emotionally shows very little. He expects me to be there for him at all times and still show him support and love but rarely does the same in return.
When we are getting along... it's amazing.. but when it's bad.... it's REALLY bad.. I really don't know how to talk to him or what to even do. Anyone have any suggestions on what I can do???
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