Date:   9/2/2010 10:17:42 PM ( 14 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=1683131

way, way, way too many negatives already in this relationship, dear sweetheart. you gotta run for the hills now, while you're on top of the situation, or you will live a life of misery. i'm the blunt one here on curezone. this is your life. angry, alcoholic, internet hound, cheater, liar, i'm running out of problem areas. life should not be this difficult. you don't want to be hooked up to mr. moody for the rest of your days. should've listened to your gut instinct. but i'm not going to beat you up over something you know you shouldn't have done. you made a big, huge mistake...now fix it.

i don't know what type of woman you are. none of us know. but what i will tell you is that the guy you just married is going to make your married life, and eventual children, miserable beyond belief. the anger and the liquor are enough to run. add in the bi-polar and the infidelity...you're a fool for staying with him. how's that for honesty?

many a woman has taken my warning to heart and changed their life for the better, for ever after. and met someone who made sense. who didn't have baggage. that's what you should demand for yourself. you need to stand up straight and tall and demand excellence in your next guy...don't settle for this. a few good times scattered in here and there vs. a diagnosis that would keep dr. phil busy for 6 months straight. listen. build up the courage. let reason and common sense enter your brain. acknowledge your mistake and make it right. short term pain, long term marital happiness. do you have what it takes to correct the obvious problem? i don't know...this is exactly what i'd tell my daughter if she were you. good marriages, successful marriages, don't need constant attention and fixing. that's exactly what you've signed up for! you want that to look forward to?
 

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