Date:   5/9/2010 12:20:10 AM ( 14 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=1619631

Ummm...There are men and women who enjoy ballroom dancing but don't get involved romantically with their partners. I'm thinking about for example, Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers. There are people who are ice dancers and partners. I'm thinking about Jane Torvil and Christopher Dean. Not everybody on Dancing with the Stars gets romantically involved with their partners.

I'm guessing that he either leads his dance partners to think that theirs is a romantic relationship or he assumes that any woman who wants to dance with him must want a romantic relationship...?

If he has a problem with this, then he needs to be upfront with any woman. If his expectation is that it will be just two people who enjoy dancing without any expectations of a long-term (or even a short-term) romantic relationship, then he needs to say so.

Most likely, he enjoys toying with the women. If that's the case, I'm sure the women he partners with will figure out what is going on.

I don't know why you fantasize getting involved with someone like that. You do know that should you get involved with him, he will treat you exactly like he treats these other women.

I say---just don't get involved with him in any way, shape or form. Deep down I believe you know that you won't be able to change him. You also know that if you do get involved, it will end in heartache for you. Let it go.
 

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