Re: Bad, drunken communication. by farfanarma ..... Rape Survivors Support Forum
Date: 10/27/2009 2:38:26 PM ( 15 y ago)
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She never said no. She said "I think". And you have to remember she was drunk and probably slurring in her speech and muttering and the words and sentences were probably not coming out right. When "I think" didn't work, she didn't try and push him off her or kick his legs the first few painful pumps into her... Instead of yelling NO or STOp or showing him she did NOT want it, she sucked it up and probably held her breath and clenched the bed sheets. Finally she cracked, kicked him and stuffed her head in a pillow and cried as she took it. BAD COMMUNICATION LADY!
There is something wrong Randomness. There is something wrong with your understanding of the act of rape, the reaction of a victim, and the subsequent reactions of someone who has committed rape. Apparently, you can only apply your take on this from your own perspective: one that lacks empathy and, instead, excuses the choices of someone who harms another human being.
Bad communication.....no, it wasn't. Something was done to someone that they didn't want done, and screaming, "NO," isn't always possible, especially when the victim is intoxicated.
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