Date:   10/19/2009 11:28:59 PM ( 16 y ago)
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I'm amazed at how people on this forum scream RAPE over everything. I also know the original post is almost a year old so even this reply is useless. But for the sake of posting after eye rolling some of these responses...I'm posting.

Quote: "Finally, I broke down in tears, sobbing into the pillow, while he groaned with pleasure. My sobs and tears only increased, until finally, I COULD NOT take it anymore. I kicked my feet and hit the sides of his legs. He retreated, actually falling to the floor in silence, as I sobbed face down in the pillow."

If this was rape, and he was a rapist, he would've gotten angry over that and jumped back up and pinned her down and really pounded her "anallly".
Instead, he just needed the kick in the legs for it to sink in what he was doing and make him more AWARE. This worked since he cried and controlled himself and not her.

She never said no. She said "I think". And you have to remember she was drunk and probably slurring in her speech and muttering and the words and sentences were probably not coming out right. When "I think" didn't work, she didn't try and push him off her or kick his legs the first few painful pumps into her... Instead of yelling NO or STOp or showing him she did NOT want it, she sucked it up and probably held her breath and clenched the bed sheets. Finally she cracked, kicked him and stuffed her head in a pillow and cried as she took it. BAD COMMUNICATION LADY!


I think some people here have just never had alcohol induced sex or have actually been drunk. To me, the way she describes the situation and guy..is like someone who was driving drunk. They know they shouldn't be driving drunk but somehow do it anyway and then when they kill someone they cry and have remorse. He probably knew somewhere in the back of his head he shouldn't have been going that hard, alcohol took over and when it was over he "cried". Yeah, big scary rapist right there..he cries.

Alcohol messes with you mentally and slows your reaction times or makes you not react right.... Why is it any different when it's sex related?

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Like the codependent person I can sometimes be, I CONSOLED HIM! I can't believe I was the one with my arms around HIM...telling him it was just a "Stupid Drunk Moment." I told him I know he loves me and would NEVER in his right mind do anything, knowing it would hurt me. Pathetic?"



The guy isn't a rapist. He probably wasn't consoling her because he was frozen and just realized what he had done and was afraid to touch her. I'll guess that he's never made her cry before since they have had such a "loving" relationship for 3 years.

There is something wrong with the OP however. There is always something wrong with people who do things they don't want to do to please other people.

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