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Re: can someone guide me please re my rape? by BlueRose ..... Rape Survivors Support Forum

Date:   10/12/2009 7:33:17 PM ( 16 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=1506395

I'm sorry this happened to you. First of all, you need to make a police report. I saw from your other post that you were cut during this rape. Thus you have very real evidence that you were attacked despite your date saying that he would say you asked for it!

Next, call a rape crisis hotline. I can give you the US number but I'm thinking you may be outside the US by your use of the term "hire a hotel room"? If I'm wrong, post back and I'll pass along the US number. If you are out of the US, when you make the police report, you can ask someone at the police station to point you in the right direction to get help.

Was it your fault? No, rape is never the fault of the victim. You made it clear to him and his lowlife friends that you didn't want to go through with this, yet they still forced themselves on you.

Get going RIGHT NOW to the police station and file that report. It will be the first step towards healing. Don't, for one minute, think that it's too late to file a report. There are women out there who filed reports years after the fact and their attackers were brought to justice.

Good luck and get going!
 

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