Date:   2/27/2009 12:39:24 PM ( 15 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=1365805

Hi,

I think you need to get out and stop worrying about everyone else.
I know you love your son,but he is not a baby and must be aware of your unhappiness?

You have to have faith that he will be able to survive on his own whether he continues in your business or elsewhere...

If you keep worrying about everyone else,you will never leave..

By all means,plan ahead and try to protect yourself in every way possible including financially..but don't leave it to long,he's behaviour sounds very aggressive and in my experience once they're punching holes in walls,it's not going to be long before you're next.

I was with my XNH for fifteen years,I understand your fears of being alone,as I felt the same,which is probably why I stayed so long..

But the truth is you're alone in many ways already,and although I'm not going to pretend leaving is easy or that life will be rosy straight away,but in the long run,your emotional health will improve and you will have peace of mind..something you will NEVER have whilst you're with him.

Now is the time to put yourself first.

Good Luck!

Sharonxoxo

http://narcissisticabuserecovery.yuku.com/

 

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