Date:   12/31/2008 12:19:41 AM ( 16 y ago)
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Well I can understand what you have been going through. We all do it. Seek acceptance and approval from our piers. It is difficult...

There is only ONE way out and it is likely the last think you want to do but you asked and I will share it.

You are looking outward. You will never find what you are looking for there. It is like chasing rainbows after a rain. You chase it and chase it but it just moves away from you. Or you catch it BUT that that you thought it would bring only lasted for a moment and dissappears.

Your example: now wanting to be made fun of and to be accepted. How natural we all want that...

In this world - no matter what we are are made fun of. It can't be stopped. BUT this is NOT your issue. Your issue for this NOT to bother you, not to hurt inside...

Yes?

FEAR is the great KILLER! fear to be laughed at. fear to look different... we all have fears...

1) as you are now at this very moment you are 100% ok just as you are. The false concept of good and evit is Bull Shit! Religious programming DESTROYS MANY!

The golden rule really is = I will be fair = I will meet folks 1/2 way. I will defend my 1/2 with my very LIFE! I will NOT be walked on. I will not be made fun of!
I pitty he who tresspasses on me!!!

wow that doesn't sound spiritual... How can we love others if we do not love ourselves? How can we respect others if we do not respect ourself? We will be walked on for life UNSESS we do not allow others to do so. It is your choice - stand up or get walked on.

YOU ARE IN CONTROL - either you stay meek and get walked on of you choose to stand up EACH TIME and say NO I will not allow you to do this to me peroid.

Only in doing so will you build the respect for yourself - and learn to love yourself - then and only then - what other think of you become muted. For you are no longer looking for acceptance in others for your self image...

Facing your fear is the SCARIEST thing to do but surprisingly easy IF you don't sit around thinking about - feeding the fear. No just act quickly trying NOT to over react to the situation that you are in.

Ok blah blah blah I blabbed to much

Know that we are all connected by a common thread - I can feel more and more are waking up to this and it is exciting indeed!



 

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