I am so very sorry to hear that. How horrible that neighbor is but maybe she just worried about your mom. I can tell you when I was sick, my mind was just not there. It was awful. I just could not think. I would be somewhere and I just din't know what was going on. I had a lot of kind people I dealt with. I told one man when I left my money,, "I am sick." He told me, "Yes, I know/" He didn't shake his head or make any bad look, which helped. I so want to help you, really anything I can do I will till your mom is better. I so wish your mom could do EFT. This is so good. and you know on my site we talk about mixing yucca with tumeric and then one man posted about mixing black pepper wtih tumeric. I am doing that because I can't get yucca. She must have lots of tumeric. I believe people with Alzheimers have worms and she needs to be dewormed. I think you told me you are doing that. I just broke my food processor on chopping pomegrante rinds. I read where if you take pomegrante rinds and dry in the sun and then grind them up that you can use them for parasite cleansing and then take a strong purging tea. The worms will go. The other thing I did was take Hopinso's blood cleasnser. That is one cup of water with 1 T of raw apple vinegar and 2 t. of honey and 1/4 t of cayenne. It is great for pain also.
You will be blessed if you quit your job to take care of your mom. God will repay you with more money than you are giving up. I feel happy to know you very much and I present you with the "White Heart Award". Someone I am so happy to call my friend.