As someone who is also a favorite of
my friend's husband, and someone who
has gone on trips with him, camping,
and who others have said things about
very similar to what you are professing
as YOUR perception of the situation you
are looking at, I am not going to say
that your perceptions are wrong, but
that they could be. Certainly, my friend
who begged me to go with her husband on
camping trips, since she hates to camp,
laughed heartily when her friends came to
her to "blow the whistle" on my seemingly
"too chummy" relationship with her husband.
She knew me and her husband well enough to
KNOW that we were never being inappropriate.
Unless you are walking into a back room
and finding your boss flagrante delicto, I
am assuming that YOU are assuming way more
than you have any authority to assume.
By your own admission, you claim you are
nosey, like it is a badge of honor. Best
be mindful of where you stick your nose as
you could find it stuck~!
I agree with the others who are saying
it will all come out in the wash. You will
gain nothing in "helping" others fall on
their sword if indeed that is what they
deserve. From the info you have shared it
just does not seem you know anything for
sure except that YOU are discomforted by
a relationship your boss is having with a
co-worker. For now, it seems as if YOU have
the problem. Leave them alone...
best wishes,
Zoe
-_-