Date:   10/28/2008 6:45:20 AM ( 16 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=1286569

Hi guys, I’ve been lurking around here for a while now and thought I’d make my first post. I have been through a divorce as a result of my partner cheating and I thought I’d try to offer my opinions and advice.

Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. (I found out the hard way) I don't mean to scare you, but many problems, when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring could be just what's showing from a larger problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more serious, more serious options needs to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If you feel like checking it out, I would completely suggest it. [url=http://www.thoughts.com/onlinemarriagecounselling/blog/marriage-counseling-169038/]Thoughts.com Blogs - Marriage Counseling[/url]

Love is a choice that is made every day when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling, but love isn't a feeling or emotion. It is an action, a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little, or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.

-Joel

 

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