Date:   10/7/2008 10:21:11 PM ( 16 y ago)
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has she always been abusive? does she feel guilty afterwards. you might want to ask yourself if she is on birthcontrol pills or the mirena iud. your post reminded me of how my husband felt in the past. it took me 11 years to figure out my birth control choices had been the root of most of my mental/physical problems. i used to have rages, i never physically hurt anyone but there were times i knew i could have really hurt someone without a second thought. one night i googled mirena iud. i found that forum in curezone, it literally saved my life. it was supposed to have no side effects. doctors lied. my mind and body went to crap. i suggest you look in the mirena iud forum if your wife is on any type of hormonal birth control. my marriage went straight to h***. my husband did not believe me when i told him that my hormones being out of whack were the source of my problems. i almost committed suicide the day i went to punch my three year old for acting 3. i hated myself and didnt know why. doctors do not warn us about the true side effects!!! YOU ARE NOT A WIMP!! chances are she is not happy with herself either. little girls dream of wanting to be mommies and good wives. the mirena iud forum is very informative on estrogen dominance. i just posted the other day in there about progestin birth controls stop the natural progesterone in your body. the synthetic progestins actually thin the myelin sheath around the cells in your brain. that is the fatty lining that protects your cells or something like that. please look if she is on a hormonal birth control. kids do not deserve to be yelled at. i know i used to yell at mine all the time. i never spanked them because i was scared i might lose my temper but i yelled ALOT! i also was bi polar and schizophrenic. i am now finally recovering from having mirena removed. six months later. i dont know if this will help, but i never imagined that birth control could have been the culprit in a million years. my husband says i am a totally different person now. i am very calm, cool, and collected now. i hardly ever raise my voice to my children. and i am finally the wife and mother i have always wanted to be.
you asked the question if you should stay or go. you should not leave your children in that situation. you are their father, you are to protect their mind and body. they are little and have no voice. it is your obligation as their father to be their voice and protector. sometimes i ask myself what i would tell a friend to do in my situation, and that helps me make a decision.
 

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