Re: Am I a freak? (Long story, please bear with me!) by #77348 ..... Relationship Support Forum
Date: 10/6/2008 3:20:23 PM ( 16 y ago)
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Thanks. That hit home. Ofcourse, I always knew that I should stick to my boundaries and not let anyone cross them when I don't want them too. I mean, that's basically in the rulebook. I was the annoying, all-knowing teenager who rolled her eyes and said "duh" when such advise was given by concerned parents.
But he...well..overwhelmed me.
I like men and I'm not unaware of the fact that hey, we're all human, and that raging hormones can cause them to think with their dick rather than their head, but I guess I expected him to be able to contain himself on a first meet. But he managed to turn an intelligent conversation into American-Pie level in 3 seconds without even blinking.
I was just not prepared for that at all. I cut it off when I felt really uncomfortable, but looking back, I feel stupid for allowing him to even try. I guess I was misleaded by his good image (he's sort of a semi-celebrity,) but on the other hand I guess he was trying to use that image to win me over.
Hmm...anyway, I don't want to analyze it to death, so thanks for your input and thanks for making me aware that at 20, I might be considered an adult, but I can still be pretty naive.
Oh yeah, don't trust a celebrity unless you're a groupie and actually want to get it on. But I guess you guys already knew that.
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