Date:   9/18/2008 10:06:41 PM ( 16 y ago)
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My wife and I have been having problems over the past two months. She has made it clear to me that she is not in love with me, She thinks that I am not as attractive or educated as the guys that are giving her attention. We have not been sexually active, as a matter of fact we haven't touched each other over the past two months. She told me that she is only with me for the kids, we do not speak to each other at all. She told me that she is embarrassed to speak to me while she is at work.
While we were arguing a month ago she stated to me on a sunday. " My job is having a function at an amusement park for free and we are not going because I'm embarrassed to be with you" I have not been able to get over that statement.
SHE LATER SAID THAT SHE DID NOT WANT TO GO BECAUSE SHE IS ONLY A TEMP AT THE JOB AND WHY SHOULD SHE GO AROUND EVERYONE AS IF SHE WORKS THERE. (Keep that in mind)

The part that bothers me is that we have two little kids and I love my kids more than anything. So it bothered because Friday is the last day of the work day and then it was thrown in my face on Sunday.

Any she comes to me today and asked if she could go out for drinks tomorrow with her coworkers. I asked her who she was going with and she named to girls, so I said who else non of the guys? Then she said yes they are all going.

Two thing bothered me about that

For one she is still a TEMP you couldn't go out on the family event, but it's cool to go out on the drinks night.

The second thing, I felt that she wasn't upfront about the guys.

so obviously we disagreed about that and then I was told why don't we just separate so I said o.k.
I know I will miss my kids like crazy as for my wife I love her but I feel like that's a wound that I can heal over a long period of time, I will miss her because I have never met anyone like her.

I dropped out of High school, so I am not as educated as others. but I have a good job that pays 85,000 base plus bonus and 401k

My heart hurts and I am getting very lonely, I am a good looking guy and I can get another woman if I choose. I get approached just like anyonelse but I choose not to cheat because we seperated once before and I was with someone and the only person that I thought of was my WIFE.

I love her
Should I stay or go


 

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