Date:   9/12/2008 9:35:08 PM ( 16 y ago)
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ok so two weeks ago exactly.. my girlfriend who is also my best friend and my love.. broke up with me.. and for no reason at all. we have been in a serious relationship for ten monthes.. but we have had a relationship for over two years.. and basically because we are best friends. ok soo when college started for her she tells me out of no where she thinks we should break up becasue she wants to experience college and not be held down right now.. and she basically doesnt want to talk to me or see me because she wants space.. we have talked and were going to try to work this out after i give her, her space but its soo hard. i have never gone 2 days without talking to her for over two years.. we shared everything.. we were in love.. we wanted to grow old together.. we were each others first. i dont understand what has happened to her that makes her not want to talk to her best friend and love.. and i know she loves me because she still tells me she does.. but everytime i ask her why she is doing this ,then she responds with i dont know.. soo im left here completely confused about the whole situation. i thought we would grow up and get married.. i know were both young.. 20 and 19 but she was soo mature when we were together and now that she is in college it seems she is immatured.. and im the one older then she is.. i came back from out of town to be with her and she stayed in town to be with me but then this came out of no where. do you really think if i give her this space she will realize she really does want to be with me?? i treated her like a queen.. her parents love me.. when they found out she did this they were mad at her and very dissapointed but they tell her that.. her little brothers are in love with me and still want me to come over and play with them.. everything was going so well. and it all changed with the snap of a finger.. everyone tells me to give her her space and she will definitly come back.. but its soo hard.. she hurt me soo bad.. we were best friends and she doesnt want to talk to me right now.. and i didnt do a thing. is this jsut a phase most girls go through when they first get to college. or what? its so confusing and i dont understand it because we were soo in love.. had soo much fun together.. the best of friends and out of nowhere.. it seemed like her feelings just turned off. with the snap of a finger.. i need help, what should i do.. jsut give her her space that she is asking for. i will always be here waiting for her to come back.. i have been in lvoe with her since i met her.. i will always be in love with her.. its true lvoe.. and i know she feels the same i think she is just distracted with her roomate and new friends.. but this is seriously killing me.
 

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