Date:   9/11/2008 6:25:35 PM ( 17 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=1255783

I don't know what kind of advice or suggestions you are looking for. It seems like it is a done deal, so what really can be said? By what you write, it seems like you know what you want and what you don't want. The only thing in the way of that is worrying about breaking up with your boyfriend over it. Why don't you ask yourself why your boyfriend would be willing to break up with you over it? If he wants his friend more than you than something is out of whack anyway. He can see his friend anytime, why does he have to move in with him....I would wonder if he is gay (sexually interested), or just likes his friend more than you. Either one wouldn't sit well with me.

You really have answered everything yourself. This statement by you says it all...'Apparently we just don't understand, or agree with, where the other person is coming from.' So, I am predicting you will be breaking up and moving out....it is just the when that is in your hands. By the way, if it was me that got myself into that situation, I would probably be so pissed that I would be lounging and cooking in my underwear anyway, after he moved in, just to say, 'screw you too'.

My boyfriend and I solved the problem of others moving in with us before we moved together. We mutually decided no one would move in with us, unless it would be our parents, if anything would happen with their financial circumstances or an illness befall them. There has been a few friends and family members turned away over the years on both sides.



 

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