Date:   4/19/2008 8:28:56 PM ( 17 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=1157165

i am going through a hard time right now. i had a mirena iud and it ruined my life. it sent my hormones into chaos. birth control pills also sent my hormones into chaos before that. a couple of months ago i finally figured out mirena was causing me to rage and caused most of my problems. since removal i have been a wonderful person, i have come to realize that i love myself and others again.
anyways, i found out my husband was having an affair feb 23. he promised me he ended it. i have found out they have been contacting each other off and on. he claims it is all her but i see the Cell Phone bill. she will not stop stalking him. she shows up at his school, work, and walmart. i mean she literally sat outside his school for 3 days looking for his truck at the beginning of the school quarter. she lives 45 minutes away. he claims for the fourth time now that it is totally over. we just started marriage counseling last week. she will not leave him alone. i know in my heart that we could have a good marriage if she would go away. i realize my husband is the problem. but i do not know what to do. we have 3 children. i have told him he will have custody if we divorced. i am a stay at home mom, so i would need time to get my life together. i know i am strong enough to get on with life now that i am mentally and physically able too. i would like to know if someone could give me some encouragement on leaving him or a reason to stay. i just love him more than anyone i have ever met, but i can no longer allow him to hurt me. i am too good of a woman to be lied too. where is the line between love and stupid?
 

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