Date:   4/7/2008 10:04:59 AM ( 16 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=1148956

She's right.
Molly has given me lots of aggressive advice over the last few months.
So have a few of my friends, to my face.
I agreed with it on one end but ultimately...

I DIDN'T LISTEN.

Why? Because I'm strong enough to think for myself and make my own decisions. Maybe going against what so many say so aggressively is what made me sure how strongly I felt.

Let me remind you, lots of people on here, including myself, have a background in psychology in some form or another, me included.
In my personal opinion, people don't ask for advice to follow it. They ask for advice to make sure they are on the side of the line that they want to be. Whether it's with the grain, or against the grain.
When I came on here asking for advice, I think I just got upset that nobody said what I wanted to hear...and I did what I did anyway. They made me stronger mentally, in case my way fell apart.

I love my narcissistic meanie and everyone on here warned me that he would only hurt me again, which he did. But I understand his personality disorder and I look past lots of things so I don't get hurt as badly anymore."If love is a labor, I'll slave 'til the end"

It's ok. I'll manage. Maybe I'm masochistic, but I have the excitement I want and it keeps things interesting. Others think we're crazy, but we're fine with it.



 

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