Date:   3/25/2008 11:07:10 PM ( 17 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=1140476

I had an abortion and it was one of the most difficult decisions I made in my life. I also suffered from post partum Depression afterwards.
Ultimately, it's her body. I know you contributed, but unless you intentionally impregnanted her, and you two planned for this, then I don't think you should fight it so hard. Sometimes, we don't know what we truly believe until we have the situation right up in our faces.
She's scared. Maybe she doesn't want to raise the child under poor circumstances.
Think about this from her point of view.
Please just try.
I'm not saying that I encourage abortion...but sometimes it's in everyone's best interest.
She's going to go through far more than you will, trust me. She has a living creation inside of her and dealing with the scary thought of how amazing her body truly is. With all of the things she's realizing and experiencing right now, you have to realize how difficult it is to be certain about abortion, and she certainly seems certain. Trust me, she didn't come to that decision easily.

This isn't the family idea you had in mind.
She's going to do it whether you want her to or not.
So you should be on here asking for help on how to accept this and deal with it, rather than come on here asking who we think is right or wrong.
 

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