Date:   3/25/2008 5:34:35 PM ( 17 y ago)
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I am not looking to force any one into any thing. I don't want to debate the if/than based on me being a stereotype male. Weather or not I could provide everything for this child or not is a question I wish every parent would be ask before they would be allowed to be parents. At no point did I say I would be a part time parent unless she decided that (ie she has the courts on her side for custody). I have the ability and means and desire to devote to parenting. I hope every statement you said would be true if I was the female in this, but none the less.
I am now ask that since the female made a change in her belief or feelings I am simply to comply. I am pretty sure she was there throughout this. If I chose to walk and she kept it, I would be forced legally to comply (ie child support) and that would be supported not only be the courts but by society. Now I am the male in this and I am simply to give every thought, belief, feeling, and control to her because she is the female. I am (as a stereotype male) the provider and protector yet I am now not allowed to do either for what I see as my child. I was asked by the female for the first 10 weeks to become attached to the baby we were having. I have done everything allowed to be responsible about this, but is it my responsibility only to the mothers wishes.
I am not going to debate what type of life the child would have. We do not know. I simply believe that if there are two involved and one decides not to be responsible the other should have the option weather they are male or female. Some children grow up with only one parent and turn out pretty good.
 

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