Date:   2/15/2008 10:28:16 AM ( 17 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=1111856

Before I posted, I had a talk with her. I told her that if she wanted to be my girlfriend, she needed to act like one. I told her no sex was nessasary, but kindness and closeness was an absolute must.

Valentines day
I met her at her place and she had done a 180. She was kind and sweet again. We even had sex for the first time in a month...twice. I made sure I made her do the undressing as I beleive this gave her more power in the situation. We even talked about her visit to a counsolor next week. What an amazing night. Nights like valentine's day night are why I love this girl so much.

I know I have dark times in the future, but I am happy at the moment. Ya'll words have weighed heavy on me and I am very watchful of my actions and hers.

Has anyone heard about eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR)? Does it help?
 

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