Date:   2/12/2008 9:06:11 PM ( 16 y ago)
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Welcome Serafina. I think as long as you focus on what you WANT in your perfect mate and stay aligned you will find that either your current partner is the One for you and you will be together OR the right One will move in and he will naturally leave the picture.

I am going through a similar thing. We separated for a while and tried again...repeat...then I found LOA three months ago. I got more and more in alignment with source. He contacted me a few days ago and we are seeing each other again now. In my case, I still love him and he still loves me and we never broke up. It was more like giving up on my part because I knew what I wanted and didnt get it because I was focused more not having what I wanted. I couldnt find out who the One really is - if it is him or if there is another One.

I know I will get the answer FINALLY by focusing on all I like in him, by seeing only that which I want to see/what I like in him (and ignoring the rest) and at the same time staying focused on what I want in my perfect mate. It HAS to come together. It can ONLY come together this way. Anything else is upstream. To leave him by thinking negative about him or being confused about the relationship or giving up without true closure is not the way to go.

LOA makes it all so easy - just focus on what you want and enjoy the ride. I just enjoy spending time with him and take what I like while being focused on my perfect mate.

Its not in your action but in your vibration. Dont think and try to figure it all out. It just puts the focus on your "problem". Ignore "what is". Just know what you want, see it, FEEL it and watch what happens.

Also, I wrote a list of my dream partner, putting down all the traits in want in my perfect mate. I know that the universe will bring me exactly that.

:-)
ox Monica
 

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