Re: Maybe I'm just being selfish? by herb-gal ..... Relationship Support Forum
Date: 2/8/2008 4:09:05 PM ( 17 y ago)
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Just because she's had a lot more boyfriends than you have girlfriends, and she's had more sex, doesn't mean you should talk about her that way. She's more experienced. End of story.
You can find a girl who is a little reluctant to do something that she didn't like before (she already gave it a second try, as you criticized her for doing, then suggested she owes that try to you) or you can find yourself a girl who is comfortable enough with you, her body, and sex to have you in her butt and a vibrator in the other hole at the same time. I've done that with my boyfriend twice but not for me...for him. It's a little painful for me but it's AWESOME for him.
So maybe she's just not comfortable enough with you yet. It's only been 5 months.
People move at different paces. Hell, another woman on here has been with her man for 5 months and is already in love and comfortable enough to talk to His parents about His problems. SO you have to accept that she just might not be ready for that yet.
If you want to develop a good, healthy relationship with this girl, then just be patient. Then again, maybe she's just not right for you. I mean, you care about health and she doesn't. That's usually a BIG issue.
If it's not worth the trouble, don't do it.
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