Can anothers vibration affect YOUR own vibration? by Invincible ..... Law of Attraction Forum: The Secret
Date: 1/23/2008 8:22:35 AM ( 16 y ago)
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"... but cant anothers vibration affect YOUR own vibration? Isnt that what seeing the best in others does?"
If you are a deliberate creator, no one affects your vibration. If you are creating by default, it seems that everyone affects your vibration.
If you are in joy and you see another suffering, if you only see 'what is' you go into empathy mode (walking in someone else's shoes) and move upstream. You move to a place where you feel what another is feeling.
You know, this was one of the major issues I used to face. As a counsellor, I deal with a lot of abuse cases and hear stories that many would find horrific. In my innocence, I would also go to their feeling place, walk right into their vibration, be very moved by their story and although I would help the client move downstream .. I would be very affected by how bad my body felt after vibrating all over the place. Sometimes, after some sessions, I would feel really sick, feel very drained in energy.
So, maybe I would have moved the client from despair to anger, but I myself might have moved from contentment into frustration.
So, yes, you can be affected by others vibrational set point, but only if you are feeling through default.
On the other hand, if you are a deliberate creator (which I am now) you can choose to see the other as already achieving what their desired outcome is, and in that way, you hold a shining torch for them to see the downstream path that is ahead of them; you light up the infinite possibilties of wellness. That is very empowering and energising for both parties involved.
And that is how Jesus healed. Jesus was so in tune with someone else's desires, that he could only see them as whole, complete and healed - as source energy. And the other would have enough faith and belief in Jesus as the son of God, the creator .. to be in vibrational alignment for a healing.
And in Jesus's seeing and knowing and joy .. and in the others faith and belief, a healing always took place.
So, my perspective is that no one can vibrate for you but you can allow yourself to be affected by someone else's vibrations as a matter of unconscious choice.
Here is another way it seems that we are affected by someone else's vibrations. When someone is in love with us, in their adoration of us, they are very connected with source energy. So, as they direct pure loving positive focus on us, we feel really good. We feel good because we feel source energy coming through them. But if they remove their attention (as is normally the case after a year or so into a relationship) .. or perhaps a better term is "the honeymoon period is over" we feel bad. We feel bad, because we were dependent on the others connection with source, not ours.
So, when someone activates the vibration of love and joy when they think of us, we return to them only with what they see in us .. and vice versa. But we still have other vibrational set points going on when we are with others who don't hold us in such positive focus.
And that is why the great spiritual teachers, like Buddha, teach about non attachment. Not to be affected by what others think or feel about us. And to only pursue our personal connection with God/source. Abraham uses the term "Don't give a rip what anyone else thinks" .. Byron Katie uses the phrase "Who's business is it what you feel about others? Who's business is it what others feel about you?" .. We always find unhappiness when we get out of our own business .. and that is what affects our vibration.
In that non attachment to other peoples feelings, we become more deliberate in our creation of how we want to feel and when we want to feel it and therfore what we attract into our lives. And of course, that is a very powerful way of being. And the greatest teachers are one with that, and it is my desire to also emulate those great teachers that have come forward to light up this path to end all suffering.
Always clear, direct questions from you Monica. It always gives me pleasure to reflect on and then answer your questions.
Love
Maya
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