Date:   1/1/2008 2:53:31 PM ( 17 y ago)
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"Also, you may be too specific in your wants. If you focus on a specific event you desire and it doesn't happen, then you get dissapointed. Remember, that the visualisations are for enjoyment, not for making an event happen."

That makes sense and I am guilty of that :-)

"And this is something you may not be ready to hear ... that this perfect relationship that you dream of with your husband may not be available from him, but from another person.

You have to allow your husband to be, do and have what he wants, and you must also allow that for yourself. What if the contrast in both your lives don't synchronise? What if there is a better version of your husband out there?"

I am okay with that. Before I contacted him again just before Christmas I have been focusing on that the universe wouild bring the right person into my life to spend my life with. As I told you, I had not spoken with him for three months prior to that after him and I had that talk back in September. Then shortly after that I got into LOA, slowly at first. I watched "The secret" and re-read the book by Lynn Grabhorn "Excuse me your life is waiting". Then I spent a little time also on this and another forum. I then found Abraham Hicks and got that book "Ask and it is given". I don't have the book "Law of attraction". I am still awaiting the CD set from Amazon (it is scheduled to arrive on Jan 4)which will include "Law of attraction" also.

Anyhow, I did not focus specifically on him, but on the right relationship. I said "and if this person turns out to be X than thats great and if not thats great also" because as long as I was happy with the right mate it didn't matter what his name was.

THEN I had that dream where he gave me all his keys - I told you about this dream. So this inspired me to get active and call him. So I did and we spend Christmas Eve together.

I felt so strongly that I needed to contact him after this dream. I also had another dream almost two months before that where I dreamt that I couldnt call him anymore because he had died and I was very sad. The next morning I also felt the urge to call him but didn't. So later that dream was followed by the other about the keys.
If I remember correctly, I had just started using/learning about LOA when I had the first dream.

What do you think about my dreams? I thought this was inspired action to contact him and start seeing him again? I do believe I was at peace with myself leaving it open and up to the universe and then I had this second dream. Maybe I wasnt as open as I wanna believe?

Isn't it true that dreams show you where you are headed by the way you think? If this is so, then wouldn't that dream say that he will trust me and all will be well?

I just want to understand the dream or dreams in general so that I can better respond to them.

I am NOT trying to stick with the desire to only consider my husband to be the one for me if this is not necessarily what my dream meant.

Basically, I was trying to do the RIGHT thing for me and for us by switching my focus ONLY on us and no longer comnsidering another partner. I thought the universe was telling me just that.

If I am wrong, then I am very happy to go back to leaving it up to the universe to bring the right man into ly life :-)

I am strong and I want what's best for me and I know that the universe knows best what or who that is. I KNOW I will be happy and satisfied no matter what his name will be.

I will look at my book and read about segment intending and prepaving this afternoon since I don't have the CD's yet as you advised me to :-)

Now, regarding my husband - should I stay passive from now and practice focusing on the RIGHT relationship, feel it, expect it, and see if he comes to me, showing me that he is the one IF he is the one???

How can I keep seeing him and at the same time make myself open to the right person??? In the past thats why I stopped seeing him. I was waiting that one of two things would happen: For him to come backto me as a changed man or for a a new person to arrive.

Thank you Maya :-)
 

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