Date:   12/20/2007 3:23:36 PM ( 17 y ago)
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Ok, I need to tell you a bit about what the situation is allthough I know that thats focusing on what I dont want. So, I keep it very short :)

We are married and my husband has strong abandonment issues from childhood. We love each other dearly but his issues prevented us from having the kind of relationship we both really want. We were seperated because of that for almost a year and got back together for nine months, then since September took a break again after we had a serious talk about us which made him back away. Now it lokos we are back to having contact once again since just yesterday. I think its best not to go into any more details as what matters is focusing on us staying together and making things work. I know he loves me dearly - we have been together for 11 years, married for six.

In contrast to how it used to be,I want him to be more affectionate, open up/communicate more, be more generous and thoughtful, spend time with me going out together/doing things and live with me. Just have a normal, fullfilling relationship as a couple. Its basically all based on a lack of trust that I would always be there for him and never abandon him.

I know now, that focusing on his issues and what I didnt like created only more of that. I also know that he is a very loving, caring man who loves me dearly and who has it all in him what it takes to be the perfect mate.

So, I have been focusing on the good memories I have of us together as well as picturing us the way I want us to be.

I had a dream a few days ago. In this dream, he asked me if I would give him a chance to rebuild my faith in our relationship. I said, sure. He looked a bit surprised, saying that he wasnt sure if I would since I had not called him since our talk. I said that I wanted to give him some space. He then handed me his keys, including all of his keys - the apartment building entrance door, his apartment door as well as his mail box. I felt very good in the dream and was very excited that he even gave me his mail box key.

So, after I had this dream I felt I should call him and so I did. This was yesterday! I called and got his voicemail and left him a message that I have been thinking of him and wanted to hear his voice and was calling to see how he's doing since we hadnt talked or seen each other for some time. I havent heard from him yet.

BTW he had tried to call me after three weeks since we had the talk in September but didn't leave any message and so I didn/t call him back. I was afraid he still would not be ready to make any changes and was just checking in to see me. He tried again a couple weeks after that, again no message.

I am very new to LOA and just started applying it a few weeks ago. I am sure the r=dream resulted from it and it makes me feel certain that we will stay together since I read that in your dreams you see where things are going, the thoughts you have been thinking manifest easier in your dream and you can see if you like what you dreamed or not and change it around by changing your thoughts.

I hope its okay that I told you these details?

I am very excited that with using LOA properly you can change your reality at any time. I want to create a new wonderful reality.

Thanks so much for your time Invincible :)



 

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