Date:   12/4/2007 11:23:02 AM ( 17 y ago)
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No need for medical attention, no need for medication. It's all about you now. Cheating on a spouse is the #1 sin of marriage. Nothing comes close. If you realize what has happened, why it happened, and the choices afforded to you...you can make a reasonable decision here. And trust me, there needs to be a decision made or you will most likely find yourself in this situation once again. Only, you'll be 8 years older, 8 years invested, and 8 years down a one-way path. I don't trust cheaters. Never have. Cheaters are liars, and I don't tolerate liars in my life. That's my policy. My life is pretty clear-cut in that department, that's probably why more positive things happen to me than negative. I'm extremely understanding, encouraging, and opinionated, but I'm the opposite of a "doormat". It's well and good to be forgiving, it's not well and good to be run over. Your guy cheated for a reason. He wanted better sex, he wanted new this or that, he wanted something that you didn't provide (in his mind). Whatever the reason, he's done it. He lied to you. Guys who cheat on their wives need to pay a price. You just don't receive "community service" for that crime. A price must be paid. If not, and I know how a guy thinks, you'll have a "probationary period" where he's a good boy until his mind wanders again. The odds are against you in this area. I don't make the rules, honey, I just acknowledge them! A guy who pushes the limits of his marriage, his most coveted and treasured relationship, will most likely push the envelope in other areas as well...that's a true a statement as the Mtnnn Mannn will ever state on Curezone. The real question I have for you is...what's a fitting punishment for the crime? I've got my thoughts...
 

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