Date:   12/3/2007 3:35:45 PM ( 17 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=1054705

YOU are worth fighting for...fight for YOURSELF!

My suggestion is to focus your energy and attention on yourself...to REALLY get to know yourself...to be brutally honest with yourself...about yourself...and to take a look at how you might be cheating on you...and how you are betraying yourself. Forget about your husband for the time being...even if you are still together. This is a wake-up call for you to go inward. And you may be terrified...and also most delighted...with what you discover.

I have walked in your shoes...my husband was unfaithful...and our marriage did not survive. It took me a lot of time and work to reach the point of deeply understanding that he gave me one of the greatest gifts of my life. Regardless if it was his intention or not...I made this work for ME...and now I feel much gratitude to him...and the capacity to love that is so much greater.

You may remain together...and you may part. Either way...this is a golden opportunity for YOU.

Let him deal with himself...HIMSELF...in whatever way he needs to deal with this.

Our SELF-betrayals are all like little suicides. What others do to us is nothing...compared to what we do to ourselves. And we attract every bit of it to us...either by the way that we treat others...or the way that we treat ourselves. There are no victims...and yet...we are all victims. We ALL want LOVE.

LOL...cheat on your husband! Have a love affair with yourself for a change!!!

 

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