Date:   11/17/2007 6:56:08 AM ( 17 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=1044434

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Dearest Hopinso......I understand your need to find a "space" that is more free of the incredible negativity that is played out here at Curezone.com. There may be an internet fellowship that suits that purpose, but nothing will ever be perfect. I want you to know that, from my heart of hearts, I have the deepest respect for your knowledge and the most profound awe for your monumental and positive efforts to overcome the incredible challenges that you face, on a daily basis. I have never, in any of your posted messages, witnessed an invitiation to a Pity Party and you have my deepest respect.

I've been on the internet/web for nigh on 20 years, now. I am a former AOL Chat Host, a Suvivor of domestic/violence and abuse, and have sought to increase my level of knowledge in as many different areas as I can. What I can tell you about the people - ALL OF THE PEOPLE - who post such negative, hurtful, shameful, and self-serving messages such as the following:
"educated beyond my intelligence"
"waste of space and serve no real purpose on the earth"
"sick and diseased, mentally ill, deceived by Satan and a danger to everyone on Curezone"
and other such negative messages and responses, only do this on the INTERNET. People who behave this way on the Internet have a profound lack of control in their own lives - they are unable to control their family members, their jobs, their health, their finances, their emotions, or their level of personal achievement and resort to the use of CAREFULLY CHOSEN PHRASES AND WORDS with the sole intent of inflicting as much damage and discomfort as possible in the virtually anonymous arena the internet.

They do this because they know that they will never, in the course of their lives, meet the "people" that they are attempting to harm and, therefore, feel safe and completely anonymous. Do you imagine, for one second, that anyone would actually TOLERATE the super-inflated egos that we see running rampant in these online forums????? I will bet a year's salary that NONE OF THESE PEOPLE behave like this at the bank, grocery, church, job, or anywhere else where they might experience physical consequences for their thoroughly unacceptable, incomprehensible choices of behaviors. No doubt, they do this with close family members, but they are so isolated because of their choices that they have ALL OF THE TIME IN THE WORLD to sit in front of their computers and scheme their next verbal attack upon people that are just passing through. Nobody will have anything to do with them in REAL LIFE. What is the most sickening aspect of all of this is that none of these people who engage in this type of behavior, at any time, under any circumstances, have ever stepped off, backed up, and considered the RAMIFICATIONS OF THEIR WORDS AND SINCERELY APOLOGIZED FOR THEIR SINS AGAINST OTHERS. And, I don't just mean the individuals that are specifically named in your message, dear Hopinso - I mean ANYONE who engages in such online power-struggles.

For CRISSAKES, people!!!!!!! This is ONLINE LIFE!!!!!!!!!!! If you are using the internet (Curezone.com or any other forum venue) to "work out" your anger/control issues under the mistaken belief that you are anonymous, safe, and free of consequences for your actions (and, words), always remember this: WHAT GOES AROUND will COME AROUND. You've got too much time on your hands and might want to consider turning off your computers and interacting in the Real World for a few lessons in gratitude and humility!!!!! This type of behavior will only earn lonliness, isolation, and disdain from human beings in The Real World.

And, the Webmaster is doing NOTHING to get this sorrowful issue under control, once and for all.

Godspeed, Hopinso, because I don't blame you and I'm about 2 steps right behind you -please, email me if you ever feel like it.
 

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