Date:   11/10/2007 7:33:08 AM ( 17 y ago)
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Abuse is fed by negative energies, period. However, from personal experience in healing, Surviving, and having assisted others in their Survival, no amount of New Age Energy Exercises will change the nature of an abuser. One's desire, wish, dream, or effort to practice a healing energy exercise is going to change the core of the abuser, one iota, one bit, one fraction, or for one minute.

The GOOD thing about practicing positive energy exercises is that it may (or, may not) provide the VICTIM with some sense of well-being so that they can muster the courage to walk (or, run) away.

To assume that the respondants to the original poster are speaking from their own experiences might have a shred of fact - but, what is even more important is that, unless a person has Survived an abusive relationship, they have no business discussing coping techniques with a CURRENT victim. They haven't experienced the gammut of negativity associated with abusive relationships, nor have they experienced running the gauntlet of escape, healing, and Survivalship.

The original poster is floundering in a cesspool of abuse, humiliation, degradation, dehumanization, objectification, and absolute (COMPLETE) isolation. If she chooses to remain after having obviously identified herself as a victim of abuse, then the consequences of her choice to remain lie firmly upon her shoulders and not those of her abuser.
 

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