Date:   10/10/2007 1:54:28 PM ( 18 y ago)
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Barefoot Herbalist,

Can you please offer advice on how to heal a ruptured appendix?
This is often viewed as a very serious & deadly condition that can, at any moment burst, causing death within a few hours, or so the medical community says. I estimate, from the data I've gathered on various websites that approximately 0.075% of people who get appendicitis die of it. I'm taking my chances, but the fear-factor from all the official MD BS out there is quite scary. Anyways, if I die of this, that's my fault. I'm asking for advice here. I do not trust the MD establishment, & will only go to them if something's really serious, like a broken leg.

I've tried the OJ fast for a week, until the grocery-store ran out. It helped, but I still have the pain. Should I try it for longer? One natural remedy suggests I fast for a while, but my body is HUNGRY. Doesnt it make sense that if my body is hungry & telling me that it want's food, that I should feed it? Loss of appetite, is a common "symptom" of appendicitis, but my appetite is strong, although not as strong as it was before my lower-right stomach started hurting. I feel that plenty of fresh-squeezed OJ satisfies my hunger quite well, but boy do I put those oranges away! I bought an electric, rotating juicer to speed things up. It's so absolutely delicious! I love fresh OJ, very time-consuming though, & pricey, but if that's the price to pay for health, I'll do it. I wish there was some sort of appendix-flush :) Would you recommend I do a liver/gallbladder-flush, or something with your Lower-bowel support supplements?

Here's my extended history on this problem:
10 years ago, when I was 19, I was picking ice off the pavement, 8 hours a day, day after day, like a machine, with a 5 foot long pick. I woke up one morning & could not straighten my body. I had to remain in a fetal position. I could wobble around, bent over. The doc looked at me and said I needed 2 weeks rest. I rested 2 weeks & was able to sit up/stand up straight again.
about 8 years later, when I was 27, my first wife left me and lied against me and got her friends to join in and many people who I thought I could somewhat trust ended up stabbing me in the back and turning other people I thought I could trust, against me, during a nasty divorce. This wife married me to become a US citizen from Romania. I had a whole community of ex-friends, who thought I was a jerk, & they told me I should pay for her health-insurance, & said I was evil... in front of the others, to my face, to punish me? or whatever, it was mean & nasty & messed up. The Romanian was making threats, threatening to make false claims of abuse, supposedly gave herself a bruise & took a picture, threatening to make the divorce expensive if I didnt just passively sit by & let her get citizenship, so that's what I did. I sucked it up & let everyone have their say & shut up about it, for fear of what our government can do when women who make false claims during a divorce.
At that time, my stomach started hurting, eventually the pain settled from the middle-area near the belly-button, to the lower right area of the abdomen, often as low as the base of my groin. It hurt, gnawed, often constantly, & felt like my guts were twisted in pain, tightly twisted & sore. After a year, I remarried. The pain was not completely gone, but after a few months in my new marriage, I felt better. My first wife, I lived w/ for 8 months & she never allowed us to have sex. My 2nd wife did not reject me until towards the very end.
I felt better after a while, but then my 2nd wife eventually started yelling at me & cursing at me & mistreating me more & more. I tried to do what I thought was right & just suck it up & not return her cruelty with just more meaness. I tried to do the right thing & tell her "Look, when you speak to me like that, I'm going to take a walk & come back later. I'm not going to just sit here & let you speak to me so hurtfully." That rarely appeased her, in fact, nothing would. I often endured very painful abuse, daily, for things like, not kissing her correctly. She even told me that I was not abusive to her, but she felt like I didnt love her & believe me, I tried to do things to let her know I loved her. Anyways, After taking way too much mistreatment, which eventually became threats, false-accusations... I finally gave her a good sum of money to leave me & sign a document stating that she would not make the divorce expensive. So she left, and finally, after about 4 months of not working, she has a job, & she assures me, not spontaniously, that she will honor her contract (it's notarized). So, having gone through all of that again, my stomach is hurting again, not much worse than the first time though.
Some even further background on this is that the 4 to 5 years I lived with my dad, he severely irrationally overcriticized me. My step-brothers witnessed & attest to it. My step-mom protected my step-brothers from my dad, but not me. He really just reduced my self-esteme ... to a pulp, & it hurt, & I just constantly tried to forgive him, & be nice to him in return, & also to avoid his presence. Well, when my seperated wife & I was visiting him, towards the end of our relationship, my dad, out of no-where, accused me of making up this pain in my stomach just for the purpose of making my seperated-wife feel bad, and controlling her. This is absolutely a ridiculous accusation. My seperated-wife even stood up for me, & admitted to him that she treated me bad! Is not this crazy? I stood up for myself, raised my voice, & told my dad that what he was saying is nonsense & asked him if he thought that he was God, to look inside me & see why I feel what I feel? He was just silent, & we left shortly afterward.
So, you see, I believe that I am attracting women to me that are recreating events that took place with my dad, in order to learn some sort of lesson, such as standing up for myself, even in situations where I'm under severe threat to lose a great deal if I do. When I was with my dad, if I stood up for myself, he threatened to kick us out. With the first wife, the threat was to make the divorce expensive & I had zero money after that leach left me. & with my second wife, the threat is more subtle, I have a contract, she has a job (she says, but wont give details), but I still do not know if NC courts would honor the contract, or if she will, but now I have money, & I just dont want to go through more hassle if I anger her now that she's gone. Our divorce will take place in about 7 months.

If healing is involved with letting all of these people know how they hurt me, & letting them know how wrong it was & letting them know that I forgive them, if it's that simple, then I feel I might as well give it a try, even though my intuition is telling me not to do it now. I'm not sure how to do it in a way that is not veangful, but I suppose I should try.

So, with all this info, what do you suggest I try? OJ-fasting?

Thanks,
Louis
 

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