Re: new, confused, HELP!!! by jurplesman ..... Codependency & Addictive Relationships & Love Addiction
Date: 9/27/2007 9:56:07 PM ( 18 y ago)
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URL: https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=1008892
It seems to me that you have an overdriven need to be loved and adored, and no doubt this may have resulted from your loveless childhood. But knowing this is not going to help you to overcome this severe negative self-image.
If we consider the negative self-image to be at the core of your problem, regardless of where it come from or how this developed in your personal social history, we can overcome this by mental practice in the here-and-now.
Please study the
Treatment of a Low Self-Esteem at:
http://www.hypoglycemia.asn.au/psychotherapy/self_esteem.html
and if you like this approach study also Transactional Analysis (TA) as explained in the
Self-help PSYCHOTHERAPY course at;
http://www.hypoglycemia.asn.au/i-psychotherapy.html.
Please study this from the beginning to the end and you'll find that you can divorce your personality from the past and start a new life.
Cheers Jur
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