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Anything changed? by dlaertios ..... Christianity (Biblical) Support

Date:   9/24/2007 7:01:38 PM ( 18 y ago)
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Hi,
Jesus Christe said that we should have one woman all our life and we shouldn't leave her except from adultery.

Then a man almost cried and told that is better not to marry than doing that. That was 2000 years ago.

Reading the answers from some Christian women here - especially Alikat - I think that nothing changed after 2000 years. I am ready to cry.

Also I want to admire Luellamay and some other women for whom I think none of the above is true and I am sure they make a man happy.

You see the key is LOVE.

You ask for it all the time but you are unable to give it. You say men can't understand u but the key is that you don't make the less effort to understand your men or to see the world through his eyes.

Yea I am sure they are violent and unstable men out there but I bet the number of women with serious psychological problems that make the life of their kids tough is far more than the number of men that treat bad their women.

At least a women who tolerates a violent behavior has responsibility as an adult, but what a kid can do to an abuse (from father or mother)?

Yea, I watched p 0 r n with before marriage but that was normal for a gal. Now that he watches alone he has some serious issues. I want all his attention for me- how shelfish - maybe to manipulate him better. He is a sinner, yea Jesus said that, he commited adultery. His watch was a mortal sin.

I was in da same sin with him but just to get him marry me. Yea but this sounds like Maciavelly, wrong book lady.

We can't serve two masters at the same time.

But I want to speak about LOVE.
If you try to react with love and understanding all will be better. Also truth. See your condition. Try to help the other person, speak with him, accept the facts - pregnant sexual unattractive - mens nature is to have sexual tension to be reliesed and to do that we have to be optical triggered. Accept it.

Try to help him I bet a lot of money that if you ask - SIMPLE ASK - what can u do to help him release this sexual tension he will sure answer.

Yea u demand to treat u like a little princess. You know this is a two way road. When was the last time u treated him like a prince?

So the key is LOVE.
If u try to do a thing for another person with love and another day you do exactly the same with anger the other person will understand the difference.

Sorry I don't have mastered Love yet so it is sure that some women will find this post at least irritating at some parts.




 

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