why have a women's forum where men can participate? (if men are indeed *dropping in to throw in their two cents*.) That's like having visiting dignitaries -or lost motorists- when you're 'in retreat', if you'll excuse a couple really bad analogies. What would be the point; it'd be like taking a step backwards. And on the other hand, how on earth could you ever know who you were talking to? (okay, I do realize you NEVER can, on such a website...but...)I would think there are plenty of men who'd like to be involved in a "women's forum", on the sly, so to speak...but do you really want to promote that kind of scenario?