Trapper
(I'd use your real first name, but don't remember if they know it here)
Anyway, you mentioned "constant friction" and believe me, I understand what that is! I walk on eggshells almost constantly because I never know what's going to cause a major flare here at home.
(I am embarrassed to admit that I needed to "joke around" on the other boards the other day, but in reality, I NEVER get any either - but I won't elaborate here).
The bottom line is, I'm very tired...and constant friction is something that is always there, because stuff tends to come out of the blue...especially on weekends, and the holidays tend to have long weekends. It's all about "coping"...and I guess I just needed to see some peace on the curezone boards. It's all about balance for me. I was (admittedly) being selfish. It may have stemmed from an occurance during a family outing. I think I am married to a manic/depressive....
When I go to bed, in about a half hour, I shall pray and meditate in your direction. It's my fervent hope for you to "feel" the love and harmony that I will endeavor to focus in your direction. May it give you some peace.
I have no answers for you concerning the debate forum, other than what I'm getting now - "the reason this has been given you will be revealed in due time"
Make sense?
Love to you always too
and a very long, and warm {{{hug}}} with no expectations