You sound like you could be my new best friend! I like what you said about marriage because it is so true. Yes, I do like to cook, but I have stopped cooking like I used to and cook like I NEED to now---for health's sake. I don't always succeed, but I do try. I like to call myself "a work in progress." I love learning from more experienced people on this website what I NEED to do to live a healthier life.