it is not arrogance you perceive. this is part of your chosen misunderstanding.
it is partially my fault. i refuse to explain myself, for very good reasons which are not everyones business. and since i know there are things the rest of you judges dont know, that means you are willing to chose whatever you want to believe about it. a strange MO, and an even more bizarre choice. you are actually interfering where it is none of your business, but you dont see me crying in my wheaties about it.
you are wasting your time chewing me out. your time would be better spent seeking understanding you can use.