Hello it's me again.
I just would like to know if there's any magic trick how to learn letting people close to you. There's this one girl I'm really interested in, and we've hugged a few times and chatted a lot on the internet. I would like to be able to hug her and be close to her, but I always freeze and become robotic-like if I'm close to someone, that's how I've survived this problem of mine. Now, however I don't want to be like this. It makes me sick to think how problematic of person I am.