I can see now

that there is very little hope for things to really change. Why is it that over half of the people support abusive people? Is it that only a few can see abuse for what it really is? This curezone forum is like a little model of society. Why does everything have to turn into a political game? Why is it a all or nothing game? Because people have not been taught to think dynamically and they resort to black or white thinking.

It is amazing to me how many so called healers are abusive in someway. It never ceases to amaze me. Tough love is not condesending, nor degrading. It is allowing another person to learn from their mistakes and not rescuing them. It is not belittling, nor dehumanizing. It is having the insight to let others learn by life without letting them fall completely. It is not telling them they are a fool, or using personal info about them to try and make them appear sick or flawed. It is about telling them the truth in a manner that is constructive, not destructive. Only those that are heart-centered can accomplish this. For those that are ego-centered, you will get something else that will be a distortion of the truth. Lies cloaked in religious doctrine is the easiest manner in which to influence the vunerable. Beware of religious and intellectual narcissists; they are everywhere. They are emotional vampires and will use you for their own selfish purpose but do so under the guise of helping you. Many of them are not self aware and do not see what they are doing. They are self-deluded. Beware.

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