You're right, it is there. But there is no 'there', there is only here and now, so it is here. I believe there are two ways of living, one is to fear everything, and the other is to fear nothing, understanding that physical 'reality' is in fact an illusion in its finite appearance. Physical death is birth. Loss of fear equals an understanding of truth, embracing all and accepting infinite energy/love/being. Attachment is illusion, for that which one is attached to is themselves being all that is infinite. Everything is you.