Yes! That is the key!

I believe you are so right, talking out the emotions is exactly what is needed for most women who have had an abortion, or even just seeking. Most times the Women who have abortions are not even told that they will experience strong emotions before and after the abortion. It almost comes as a shock...but it is totally normal. And this is definately a safe place to talk.

Most of the times, a woman or man feel like they can't talk about their experience because they feel that it was their "choice" so they shouldn't even feel any emotion about it. Therefore they should deal with it silently, and it usually becomes very painful. But it is okay to talk! Find someone you trust, that is a true friend and talk it out.

Thank you "Mai Li", for sharing your experience. You are very brave to do so, and your story just may help someone.

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